Losing your mind?
I know, you love your kids. REALLY love them…But this Mom Thing Is Hard. Admit it.
You’ve read the books, the blogs and watched the TED talks — all in an effort to outrun your childhood
— to give your kids a better life than you had. But the GUILT is overwhelming.
You’re pulling all-nighters, doing everything A+ moms do — Pinterest crafts, bento box lunches …
Making unicorn EVERYTHING
but you’re barely scraping by with a C.
You even swallowed your pride and called your mom, but people don’t know what they don’t know. And she definitely doesn’t know YOU.
You’re trying your best, It’s just not good enough.
IT’S NEVER GOOD ENOUGH!
Maybe you’re just not cut out for this.
Or maybe you are.
These are YOUR MONKEYS. This is YOUR CIRCUS.
I believe you can be a great mom even if you didn’t have a great childhood.
All you need is the right guidance and support. What you don’t need is guilt.
“I think differently than most people in my “tribe” and (maybe I am just weird) but there are days I get down on myself because people always have something to say about what I’m doing or why … Your blog tells me to focus just on what God has placed in my heart to do.” — Deanna
“Tonya, your transparency makes you so connected to me … I know you get life!!! You’re such an encouragement to me!” — Beth
Imagine waking up one day and finally feeling confident as a mom. No guilt. No fear.
Imagine being surrounded by other moms just like you, “doing it scared,” hoping, praying, pleading that it’s not too late to get on the right track.
You don’t need the right role models to model the right roles.
When you join the Great Moms community, you’ll learn how to identify unrealistic expectations, break free from the fear and guilt over screwing up your kids, and gain the confidence you need to tackle the hard parts of motherhood without losing your mind.
Not because I’m all-knowing, but because I SEE YOU.
I was caught up in the diaper wars, feeding wars, mommy wars and tantrums. Most days, I wanted to scream. Often, I cried. I wanted to be better, but I wasn’t equipped. My family was no help.
I didn’t want to raise my kids the way I was raised, and I was terrified I was screwing them up as I muddled through motherhood.
My confidence came in finding middle ground by watching other moms in action: learning what to do, what not to do and trusting my instincts along the way.
Now, I’m committed to teaching other moms how to break free from these same insecurities to strike balance between what’s ideal and what’s practical — to help you finally believe that your best is enough.
How I Can Help You Kiss the Guilt Goodbye
- Join Our Pilot Program — If you’re ready to quit the guilt for good and help other moms do the same, you might be ready for our Great Moms pilot program. Enrollment is now open. Click here for details.
- Join the Great Moms Community — I believe there’s strength in numbers. Let’s build a tribe together. Join the wait list today, and you’ll be among our community founders.
- Get Great Content for Great Moms — Get guidance and encouragement straight to your inbox on the mothering issues that matter most to you. Subscribe today and be the first to receive great resources for moms just like you.
You have been the end-all-be-all for so long that reaching out for help hurts. So thank you for contacting me!
The impact of you trusting me with what weighs on your heart and mind is not lost on me. I can’t answer every question or get back to everyone personally. I DO promise to read every message and may use your letter in a future post or on social media. Privacy is ALWAYS protected. If you don’t want any part of your letter published, just let me know!
Stop the Insanity.
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