Normal was never the point.
Ever feel like you’re too much — or not enough — for the rooms you walk into?
This podcast is your permission slip to stop contorting yourself to fit.
Find Your Freaks is a home for the ones who’ve been told they’re too loud, too sensitive, too weird, too wild — or just too complicated to belong. Hosted by community strategist Tonya Kubo, the show explores the messy, beautiful reality of finding your people by showing up as your whole damn self.
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The Conversations
Every episode is a real, unfiltered conversation with someone who’s creating radical belonging — not in spite of who they are, but because of it.
These are the stories behind unconventional communities, unexpected leaders, and human connection that defies the algorithm.
This isn’t about fitting in. It’s about discovering what becomes possible when you finally stop trying.
033 – The People Who Hold Everyone Else Together
Why boundaries don’t weaken communities. They strengthen them. Healthy communities depend on people who are willing to show up for one another. Problems arise when showing up turns into one person becoming responsible for everyone else. In this episode of Find Your...
032 – Why Pastors Stay (and Why It Matters That They Do) with Margaret Marcuson
032 – Why Pastors Stay (and Why It Matters That They Do) with Margaret Marcuson Why sustainable ministry starts with knowing what is yours to carry Pastors are called to care for people. But what happens when caring for people turns into carrying everything? Ministry...
031 – Who Should You Trust When You’re New to Homeschooling?
Why lived experience matters when everyone online sounds like an expert The internet makes it easy to find homeschooling advice. It makes it much harder to determine whether that advice has stood the test of time. In this episode of Find Your Freaks, Tonya Kubo builds...
030 – The Hidden Life of Working Homeschool Moms with Jen Mackinnon
Why belonging should never require you to split yourself in two Working moms are often told they cannot give enough to their children. Homeschool moms are often told they should give everything to their children. So what happens when you are both? For years, working...
Why It Matters
We’re more “connected” than ever… and somehow lonelier than we’ve ever been.
But beneath the noise, people are doing it differently — building community that embraces the whole person, not just the polished parts.
This show is for anyone asking:
“Where do I belong?”
Or better yet:
“What if I stopped trying to belong where I was never meant to?”
Meet Your Host
Tonya Kubo has spent nearly two decades helping people find their people — sometimes through strategy, sometimes through deep market research, and always with a fierce belief in the power of human connection.
She’s the brains behind thriving communities, the bouncer at the door of internet nonsense, and the fixer you call when your Facebook group has gone straight-up Lord of the Flies.
Tonya is no stranger to the mic. She co-hosts The Business You Really Want and Clutter Free Academy — but Find Your Freaks? That’s where she says the quiet parts out loud and makes space for people proving community doesn’t require conformity.
And her favorite spaces?
The ones where the freak flags fly high.
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